Sorry its long but - History behind it:
I have known my parents were swinging with other couples since 2006 and when I found out I was obviously shocked but put it to the back of my mind as I thought its their choice not mine. As long as it was private I didn't want to hear about it.
Then I got married, and have a daughter who is now 5 years old. My mom promised all that business with other couples was finished with!
I have also over these past few years fell out with my parents over money that they have owed me and I had to fight to get it back from them. I'm talking thousands!
Then in the past few months my parents have been going out a lot and especially my mom has been acting like a slut. I'm talking dressing like a prostitute, people on Facebook messaging her filthy things and she openly flirts with other men.
Then I found out she slept with a guy who is my brothers age (25) and she is 50. In their family home - my childhood home - on more than one occasion.
She justified this by saying it didn't mean anything. Then she told my dad about it.
She thought he would be ok about it because he slept with a woman also in the same home while she was out one night!
By then I'm freaking out cos this crap is just getting worse!
I also start noticing she she says inappropriate things to my dd, like does you grandma look sexy? Who the eff says that to their 5 year old granddaughter?!?!?!
I have a big row with my mom and tell her and my dad to change their attitude, decide if they want to be together or not because if this carried on I wanted nothing to do with her.
I don't want my daughter thinking this is normal or that they are good role models! They ARE NOT!!
Then a couple of nights ago my brother accidentally found a couple of messages on her phone from a guy to my mom saying he loved her and she replied that she loved him. He told me about it and has been worried to death because he knew none of the other stuff!
So I told him and he agrees with me but hasn't cut ties with our parents. That's fine it's his choice.
I however told my mom all that I felt about her which is now basically nothing and that I was no way on earth putting my daughter anywhere near her! I'm also due or 2nd child in march.
She said she couldn't see what my issue was and that I was being silly! I asked her to explain this guy and her feelings and she says he's just a friend. I don't think so!!! I wasn't born yesterday and I can see she was obviously gearing up to either cheat again or go off with him.
Nevertheless, her behaviour has been atrocious and despite her promising it wouldn't happen again, it looks like it is.
I warned her that if I heard anymore about her slutty behaviour I was done. Yet she didn't care and went ahead anyway.
Tonight I was naughty and checked her facebook private messages. But I needed to be absolutely certain I had my facts straight. I could see plainly messages with at least 3 different men talking about sex and know of a picture of a penis being sent to her phone.
I can't call this woman my mother anymore. Nor do I agree with her behaviour.
I am done, finished, over it!! My dd and ds will not grow up around this woman. That goes for my dad too.
Am I right? Would you have done the same?
You and SO spooning in bed. You may or may not have clothes on. He is sound asleep snoring away.
You have the urge to fart. You feel it traveling to the exit.
Do you let it out? Hold it in? Hope it's silent and that SO doesn't feel it on his man parts?
wth? its not the first time he has done this. he has done it at the doctors in the waiting room. ive also noticed that he cant sit still. he is always twitching and moving. if im talking to him he gets distracted by anything. his behaviour is getting worse (started biting recentlty). im thinking im maybe seeing a specialist about this.....
I had to put in my 2 week notice the other day at my job because it is a hazardous work environment and I can't handle it anymore being pregnant and doctor also advised against continuing there.
I am a bartender in a fully smoking bar/restaurant with no ventilation. Although I used to smoke a pack a day before I was pregnant, it affects me way worse being pregnant. Everyone in there is a chain smoker too. I have been consistently sick for 2 months now, having severe headaches while in the building, and nose bleeds.
So my question is, do you think I will get approved for my unemployment? I will have to try and find another job if not @ 28 weeks pregnant.