And what do I get to do instead of rest?? Clean. All day. My husband will NOT clean up ANYTHING. He will come home from work and leave his dirty work clothes thrown on the living room floor that I JUST VACUUMED. He will not put one dirty dish away. If it makes onto the kitchen counter, thats him overachieving. He doesn't offer to help me with anything, even though he knows how much it wears me down and that all I want to do is rest.
If I don't cook dinner for him, then he is clueless as to what he will do for food. Like he is completely incapable of making himself a freaking frozen pizza!! I would just stop doing all of the cleaning, but if I do, it won't even get done. He doesn't have a problem living in filth. Which is so gross to me. The worst part is, I've been having to clean out the catbox because he constantly "forgets" to do it, so it'll go a week without getting done and our cats will start pooping on the floor. What the hell do I have to do to get him to help out a little bit? He hasn't even offered help me!! He at least says thank you for doing it, but I shouldn't have to be the only one constantly keeping our house clean.