My problem is I have no idea how to start. I'll come up with a name I like but it doesn't sound right or it just doesn't feel like that's her name. I also have a lot of negative associations with a lot of girl names or the ones I'm drawn to are taken already by close friends, co workers or relatives. Does that matter, is it tacky to name your baby the same name when you see these people regularly? Did your name seem "right" or did you just go with a name you kept coming back to/liked? Are there any websites that take the last and middle and give you ideas or something along those lines? I know I have time, but it's driving me crazy and I'd love to start on personalized baby items and whatnots.