husband chooses friends over me and his kids

we have been together for almost 5 years and married 1. we have 2 baby girls and our boy on the way. lately he has been sneaking around hanging out with losers, I mean LOSERS. his supposed best friend called me a c*** because I shut down his gf when she said she could get any man including my husband. I told her she should watch out because my husband wasn't into 12 year old boys, she looks like a 12 year old so that's why that comment was made. well she couldn't fight her own battle so she told her bf I was starting sh** with her and he called me a cun*. anyways, my husband still hangs out with this loser and says he's his best friend. also, he's been smoking pot behind my back and wasting money on it. I was fine with smoking at a party when he was 20 but he's 23 and has a family. I find it immature to sneak around, hide money and lie. I want to leave and let him mature on his own. I think it'd be better for me and the girls to just move out while he does this crap because I can't stand fighting all the time about it. please give me your advice. am I being a crazy wife or being rational?
REPLIES
By: mama19
Member since Mar 06, 2011
Posted: on Aug 30, 2011
You should do what's best for your children and yourself! It's hard to change someone and you should ask yourself if his actions are safe for you and your family? He'll come around eventually if he truly loves you if not... Well let's just say there are more fish in the sea and you deserve what's best! Good luck hun
By: ChelseaRenee
Member since Aug 15, 2011
Posted: on Aug 30, 2011
My boyfriend is twenty and has been living the party life since he was 14 we for together on his eighteenth birthday. He said his partying days were over. But now all of a sudden he wants to be doing the same s*** . He knows I hate weed and especially cigarettes. Ugh I try leaving him but its hard. But I understand completely. oh we have a baby on the way as well. And f*** that dumb b**** too. lol. ugh She's probably ugly thinking she's miss America. pshh.
By: Dlea31207
Member since Aug 21, 2011
Posted: on Aug 30, 2011
lol, I understand I should leave, but like you said chelsea its hard. he promises he will change then a week later he's back at just because a tiny fight. counceling also hasn't worked for us, that's why I feel leaving is my last resort. men don't mature until they reach about 25+, but te smart ones mature a lot quicker. partying life Is for kids. once a baby is involved its grow and that's the only option. I hope our men realize we love them and aren't just trying to be controlling and mean. BTW she's 100 lbs 5'4" and looks like a beaver. Idk why she thinks she's hot, but she does. the guy who's with her pissed her off by saying she had to grow a body like mine. lol. that's why she said those dumb things, out of jealousy. I wad actually pissed he commented on my body, but my man wasn't. anyways, ill keep you gals updated and you do the same k. thanks girls.
By: Dlea31207
Member since Aug 21, 2011
Posted: on Aug 30, 2011
I agree, I am not saying divorce. just a break away from the stress, he's doing better and I hope it stays good
By: ChelseaRenee
Member since Aug 15, 2011
Posted: on Sep 01, 2011
Lmao. I can't stop laughing. I'm 100lbs and 5'4. But I have (soon to be had) a top model body. Lol. jk. but I workout so I got a ba donkie and little but decent boobs. lol.
By: Dlea31207
Member since Aug 21, 2011
Posted: on Sep 01, 2011
lol.

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