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The old heads are seeing some fresh new faces in here and that means one thing... repeat questions. So here's what you need to know before posting.

1. We do not know why your man is cheating on you. We are dads or dads to be, we do not treat our women in this poor way. Leave him.

2. We have never hit a woman and the only excuse a man can have for doing such a thing is that he is a douche. Leave him.

3. We have sex with our significant other (at least we want to) pregnant or not. He's probably cheating. Leave him.

4. We find our pregnant women, even our pregnant heifers, attractive. If he says you're not attractive, he's a douche, and probably cheating. Leave him.

5. We don't know why he always plays video games. We spend time with our SO. He's probably just a douche. Leave him.

6. We don't know what he wants for his birthday if we know nothing of him. Explain his likes/dislikes. If he doesn't appreciate what you give him then he's probably cheating. Leave him.

7. Please learn to spell and use proper grammar. If we think you are not intelligent we will point it out. There is no need for shortcuts in typing. You are not in a race to finish your post. Your man may find this unattractive. He will probably leave you.

8. Do not insult us when we give you a sarcastic answer. You asked, we answered. If you insult your SO that way, well that's probably why he is cheating.

9. If your man comes home from work and does not want to wait on your every whim, he's probably a douche. Leave him.

10. We do not know why your man calls you bad names. Again, we treat our women with respect. He's probably a douche. Leave him.

11. Please do not "bump" 32 week old threads. I'm not going to read through all the responses in order to give you a new answer which was probably covered already.

12. Use the search feature. A lot of questions were already answered with good answers. I'm not putting the effort in to re-write my response.

13. If you want advice on new sex positions do not flag us when we give valid responses because you are offended. If you do not want to do new things then he will probably cheat and leave you.

14. Do not b**** about our answers. We don't care to read your man hating jibberish. Maybe that's why your man cheats.

15. Let your man have alone time. If you're always up his butt calling him every 5 minutes because he is out with his buddies he's probably going to stop at a girls house on the way home.

16. I don't believe that before pregnancy you were having sex 17 1/2 times per day. Don't give me that lie.

17. Do not ask for video game recommendations without telling us what he already plays. If he only plays Madden he's probably not going to like if we suggest Dora's Great Explorations.

18. NO NEED TO TYPE LIKE THIS OR LiKe THiS, YoUll OnLy PIsS Me oFf. Besides, who has that kind of time, that took me like 5 minutes to type that poorly.

19. Thaman's post (removed)

20. And finally, get in the kitchen and make a dang sammich. Men love sammiches and won't leave you if you know how to make heaven between two pieces of bread.

21. We do not know if your vagina will be "virgin tight" again. As far as we know everyone is different. If he thinks it's loose he will probably cheat. So leave him first.

22. Some of us are circumcised and some of us aren't. We like the way we are and our opinions differ. Our kids will be what we choose. Your's should be too.

23. If you get stretchies, ask your man if he likes them. Some guys do and some guys don't. I'm not telling you you're hot in case you aren't. He'll cheat if he thinks they are unattractive. Leave him if he doesn't like them.

24. Do not post "TMI" in here. If I have to look at one more mucus plug you're getting a picture of the next iceberg turd I have.

25. Porn, watch it and shut up. It's not cheating to watch. But if you see him in one, he's probably cheated. Leave him.

26. Yes he's cheating on you... with his hand. Maybe if you touched it once in a while he wouldn't have to. He's saving you the trouble, so get over it.

27. If you roll up on us with "why are all dads deadbeats" or something of the sorts, prepare to be flagged for violating the Terms Of Use. In this instance you're the douche.

28. DNA Tests. If your man wants to take one or is denying your baby at least take him on Maury and let us know when you'll be on. s*** 's so funny. Especially when he "ain't dat baby daddy".

29. If you are a noob, do not complain about the Rules for Noobs, as you do not understand the need for them yet.

Thanks for listening and I look forward to answering all future questions. Remember these rules and I might actually like you.

We received a lot of feedback that our moms wanted a place to get a dad's opinion so we created this group just for that. This group is for our moms to ask dads for their opinion and vice versa.

We hope this will allow the Just for Dads group to be a safe place for dads to engage in conversation with each other.

Jennifer (Community Moderator)

I'm not trying to be rude, just curious .....so leave your attitude at home please :)



Why do some women haunt this forum?? I mean its called questions for dad's ....I totally understand why women answer on certain posts (I have myself) but what I don't understand is why some of you ladies are ALWAYS here answering on almost every post. When I come through here (every now and then) and read through the post I always see the same names lol it baffles me.

It dawned on me there werent enough sex posts... so...

If my husband cums in my mouth did he enjoy the bj?

Can I add extra titty time as a replacement for anal.. I am a little backed up?

Does anyone else find my down syndrome handicap wink hot?

Why doesnt my husband have sex with me?

I think he is screwing a midget goat stripper.. what do I do?

I really need some help!

ok so my bd and i hav been staying togetha for a while. without me, he was facing 3 to 25 years in prison, not going to school, and not working. we've been together for 4 yrs now, so we kno eachother good. we act the same way and all of that good stuff. ok so yesterday, we came to an agreement that we shuld spend some time away from eachother cuz thngs havnt been so good. we smoked (even though) im nt suppose to. after, we had some dam good sex i mean it was awsome until i had to pee. lol so he packd up almost all of his s*** (and some of mine) and left. i told him surprise me(dont tell me) when he comes home. the last things he said to me was "idk when im coming back" and "please dont cry, you will hurt the baby" then he kissed me and left. i am so in love with him and dont kno what to think. im so confused right now because he still has his key and clothes over here. he said he doesnt wanna break up but has to leave for a while. what do you guys think? im i trippin or does it sound like he really left me? i need some advice....

My husband and I are trying to make a decision I'd like help with. He wants to upgrade our wireless internet to N but we are stuck with the Verizon Fios router that is G. He bought an N router and uses the G as a bridge, which really improves our internet. The problem is that it messes up the cable TV. With the new configuration, the cable box can't get the cable guide, doesn't record anything on the DVR, and On Demand doesn't work. To me this renders cable useless. I haven't seen any shows I usually watch since he moved to the new router.

The main reason we want to upgrade is so he can watch Netflix in the bedroom as he goes to sleep, which works only with the new router configuration, not the old. I prefer the old configuration since I never watch Netflix in the bedroom and often watch cable. I said it is a waste since we pay for cable, including all the movie channels. He suggests we pare down the cable to a minimum and join Hulu Plus to watch current shows.

It's a decent idea, but I find looking through on demand type menus cumbersome and time-consuming. And with a new baby, it can be hard to manage the TV remote, plus the Xbox remote, plus my phone, etc. Also, on demand type menus aren't as browse-able as a cable guide. I often watch things on cable because I run into them and they look interesting. I rarely do that with Netflix. Finally, I don't know whether all shows are available on Hulu or if the new episodes are up right away. I guess I could research that.

So, I'm willing to give his idea a try, but I was wondering if anyone else has any experience with this. Has anyone stopped watching live TV and moved exclusively to streaming? It seems like the way of the future but I'm not sure the technology is there yet. Sorry this is so long.