i dunno wat to do...

i have 10 days left to my due date..but... i havent been to the dr since the end of jan becuz i have no one to keep my two kids...my last scheduled appt i missed becuz their father said he would watch them n did nt come thru & hasnt come thru since...n the only person who is available to watch them(mother) gets off at 530 everyday....so basically at this point i dunno if um dialated if my blood pressures high or what(headache past 3 days) or i dunno if my babys big or what..this all is stressing me..i have so much pain but a high tolerance to most of it...n lately my discharge has changed to liquid nothin..thin..no smell or color...i dunno what i should do..um n this alone...
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By: rmh
Member since Oct 11, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
I would give ur kids to ur mom and go to the hospital to get checked cause it turning to liquid could be a leak in ur bag. I'm not saying it is but this could be dangerous if it is and not going to ur appointments is dangerous too not just for baby but u too. U gotta be careful mamma! If everything is ok then your next appointment take ur kids with u even if they have to stay in the waiting room while u go in. They r too young for school?
EDD: Mar 15, 2012
It's a boy!!
By: YahnaMomma
Member since Feb 19, 2012
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
yea three & two
By: Jessea
Member since Dec 05, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
Go into l&d and get checked if your headaches are persistant. Pre-eclampsia is very dangerous and can come on suddenly. Just take your kids with you.
EDD: Mar 02, 2012
By: Jessea
Member since Dec 05, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
Good luck and I hope you feel better!
EDD: Mar 02, 2012
By: tattoomom16
Member since Aug 01, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
I would take them. You should have a check up to make sure everything is ok. I bring my son all the time.
EDD: Mar 29, 2012
By: YahnaMomma
Member since Feb 19, 2012
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
Thnx ill try to go... I realli Jus hope she breaks my water or something...I have never went this long
By: barce
Member since Dec 15, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
I take my son all the time too! the front desk even offers to watch him for me during my appt.
By: 2moms2kids
Member since Jul 03, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
I also took my two year old to every appointment. If you have no option take them with you :).
Nc
By: YahnaMomma
Member since Feb 19, 2012
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
its Jus hard wit a big belli wit two little ones & catching the bus thats about ten mins walk away ...thats y taking them wit me was never really an option being that I wont have my transportation ready until Monday
By: dueinmarch
Member since Jul 01, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
call ur mom & go to labor & delivery, your putting baby at risk, go to l&d now
By: handerson
Member since Jan 09, 2012
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
Take them with you. I know it's a lot to deal with, but your health is SO important right now & if taking them gets you in to get checked out, then so be it. I have to take my 2 yr. old with me to all of my appts. Granted, it's just one child I have to take with me. Good luck.
EDD: Jul 26, 2012
By: MamaRenee
Member since Nov 21, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
I would have your mom watch them and go to the hospital so they can monitor you, check your discharge and blood pressure
By: la.lady
Member since Nov 27, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
yahana girl i have a 2year old & a 3 1/2year old and i take them both with me...
i strap them in the stroller.... and as soon as my appt starts i give them a snack & a cup with one of there favorite toys... and by the time there finished with the snack & stuff me and the doc are wrappin it up or done!
i know kids can be a handful but dont keep missing ur appts!
good luck..

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