Nothing seems to be going right

Sorry but I just need someone to talk to. I'm 36 weeks pregnant and it just seems like nothing is going right. My boyfriend and I are looking for a house to rent because we have to move out of my parents house before the baby comes. My parents are wonderful and have been so supportive of everything. Well when we went to look at houses yesterday we found out that no one can rent to us because his ex messed up his credit. Back in 09 when they broke up he had let her stay in their apartment and he went and found another place. He payed the rent and utilities and told her she needed to b out by a certain day. Well apparently she stayed longer and they charged him another months rent but never tried to contact him and let him know. Now he has this on his credit so we can't get a place. I have good credit but don't make enough for the price range we are looking in so idk what to do. I'm just so fed up. Even after all this time she is still messing up his life. And now it's messing up ours as a family. But what I really don't understand is he got approved to buy a new car but we can't be approved to rent a new house. Sorry it's long but I just needed to vent. Because idk what we are going to do.
EDD: Mar 20, 2012, Clarksville TN
REPLIES
By: jossandjosh
Member since Feb 08, 2012
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
I know it's a tough situation the one you're in but take a moment And relax don't stress it out because it could stress out your little one. Just take one step at a time and everything will be fine material things such as credit could be fixable :)
By: alishanw1989
Member since Apr 30, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
He went and paid off the balance today and they still won't remove it from his credit report. All they did was give him a statement that he paid. And he went to talk to a realtor again today and they still won't help. I just don't understand. I try not to stress but we need a place now. Cuz I had my son 2weeks early and I'm thinking this one will be too. I just dont know what we are going to do. But thanks for the advice and response.
EDD: Mar 20, 2012, Clarksville TN
By: empuzak_0917
Member since Aug 08, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
I am so sorry your going thru a hard time. I can relate tho. honestly, I can. but were just taking it one step at a time even tho half the time we fall 8 steps backwards.. hang in there girly
Saltsburg PA
Love being a mommy =]
By: alishanw1989
Member since Apr 30, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
Thank you.
EDD: Mar 20, 2012, Clarksville TN
By: VeeJa
Member since Apr 16, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
Can they not use ur credit with yalls income joined? That's what we did with our cars.
EDD: Mar 20, 2012
By: JodiK
Member since Jan 24, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
My dh and I have awful credit because he got very very I'll a few year ago. Our car got repossessed to name one thing! I JUST convinced capital one after 3 years to give me a 300.00 credit card! We also have to rent a townhouse and couldn't go thru a company or anyone on MLS so I started looking on sites like kijiji and craigslist and whatnot and explained our situation to potential people we would rent from. Now in one month we are moving into a beautiful townhouse (renting it) because the owner is giving us a chance. You just gotta keep trying, keep looking, keep emailing and you will find someone who will cut you some slack. We all get into tough situations sometimes. Hope it works out!
EDD: Mar 07, 2012, Toronto, Ontario
By: sarahguy
Member since Aug 13, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
I've worked in apartment management and now we own a couple rental properties that I manage. I would second the suggestion to look on Craigslist and rent from a private owner. We have one home that is managed by a company and I manage the other 3. Our managed home has very strict credit requirements bc it's in another state and I'm not there to supervise! However of the 4 tenants we've had in our 3 GA properties in the last 3 years, not ONE has passed a fairly lenient credit check. I have listened to their stories, weighed all the factors (credit issues, income, rental history, back story and verification, etc) and ultimately gone with my gut. Wouldn't you know, we've not had a single problem with any of them! And it makes me feel good to know that we are providing homes to three families that otherwise may have had a problem finding safe and affordable housing. Not every private landlord is going to feel this way, obviously, as a rental home is an investment and it's scary to entrust it to someone who all you know about them is the negative that showed up on their credit report! But I bet if you look hard you can find someone. Having the letter showing the balance is settled is a great step. When I was in apartments I know that having a housing balance owed was an automatic fail, but we could reverse the decision and approve if they paid it off (and there weren't other adverse factors on their credit report). Was it just a reported balance or does it show as an eviction? An eviction is going to be much harder to work around.
EDD: Mar 26, 2012
By: alishanw1989
Member since Apr 30, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
At veeja: that's what I asked and one place said i would have to qualify income wise also. I didn't understand that because we're going to be living together so were both going to use our incomes. But we need to try that.
EDD: Mar 20, 2012, Clarksville TN
By: alishanw1989
Member since Apr 30, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
Thanks Jodi. That's makes me feel better.
EDD: Mar 20, 2012, Clarksville TN
By: alishanw1989
Member since Apr 30, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
@sarah it was reported as an eviction with a 0 balance that he knew nothing about. And I've been looking on Craigslist every day.
EDD: Mar 20, 2012, Clarksville TN
By: paiza
Member since Oct 11, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
Ask your parents to cosign? Maybe this will help.
By: alishanw1989
Member since Apr 30, 2011
Posted: on Feb 22, 2012
@paiza I've thought about asking them but I hate to ask for them to do that. They do alot for us already.
EDD: Mar 20, 2012, Clarksville TN

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