HELPWhat would you do if ur BF became verbally abusive 2 u (while pregnant) & older kids because he cant handle the stress of the responsibility? Won't talk it out, no intimacy, but u can't afford 2 be alone for at least a year?

By: hotmessmama
Created: Jul 09, 2011

Live separate lives meanwhile you bide your time until you have the baby, find work and become financially independent. Then kick him to the curb.

Kick him to the curb now- but lose house and have to file BK. try 2 find a place for u, LO and older kids to live off very little money. Meanwhile you get back on ur feet financially.

Do nothing about relationship. Protect older kids- Be patient with the hopes that when you give birth to HIS child he will have an "aha" moment and change his mean, selfish, abusive ways.

Reach out to his family to try and talk some sense into him even though u have done that before only to have them reject you and protect him (because he is the eldest brother and only college graduate in his family and can "do no wrong" in their eyes.

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**HELP**What would you do if ur BF became verbally abusive 2 u (while pregnant) & older kids because he cant handle the stress of the responsibility? Won't talk it out, no intimacy, but u can't afford 2 be alone for at least a year?

HELPWhat would you do if ur BF became verbally abusive 2 u (while pregnant) & older kids because he cant handle the stress of the responsibility? Won't talk it out, no intimacy, but u can't afford 2 be alone for at least a year?