My concern is having a vaginal birth... I'm scared to death of it! I fear ripping or having to be cut and stories that you are never the same again down there.
I want to be a big girl about this but I'm just not imagining this going well. I have no clue why this is a huge concern for me now when it was not the first time around?
Can anyone ease my mind? Please don't bash... I'm aware this is irrational but I can't seem to ease my thoughts.
My doctor has given me the choice to do either and I would really like to go with the least invasive route.
The reason I had a c-sec prior was because I could not dilate past 3cm no matter the drugs they gave me, water broke and baby went into distress.
Any friendly thoughts?
Based on that alone I say I think it is a girl -- but as time going on - I feel it's a boy - I only have a boy name picked ( Sullivan Riley )
And I find my self " preparing " for a boy --
I have two daughters 18-10 and this pregnancy is SOOOO different then with them -- I am over all fatigued butt morning sickness is minimal compared to the exorcist type vomiting I had for months with both my girls --
Anyone have experience with gender dreams that were either correct or not ???
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